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At the Monster House we use the "divide and conquer" method to tackle household chores. Otherwise, it would be me doing everything, and I just have to say, one person cleaning up after nine people just doesn't work out so well.

From picking up to doing dishes, to vacuuming and dusting, everyone pitches in - even the twinnies. But not everyone has 8 other family members to help get things done, like Lee and Morty, a 90 year old couple  living in New York. You can imagine how lugging around a heavy mop bucket or stretching on a rickety step stool to get the dusting done could be both difficult and dangerous for Lee, who does all the housekeeping in their home. Check out their story, and fall in love with them like I did:



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Calmer by Nature #Review

Y'all, I just have to tell you about the most amazing DVDs we are using at the Monster House for soothing, bed times, and quiet times in the afternoon. I was recently contacted by the awesome people across the pond who make the Calmer by Nature and Calmer by the Water DVDs. These DVDs are phenomenal for my twinnies when they are having a rough time self soothing, or are in the midst of sensory overload.

Packed with video uninterrupted by people, voices, vehicles, freeway sounds, or anythnig else not found in the wild, Calmer by Nature 2 is a super huge hit with the monsterlettes. They never fail to giggle like crazy people during the scene where baby birds start raising a ruckus before the mother bird with the food is even in view. They are always amazed that those "siwwy baby buhds" seem to have radar for their Momma.

Check out this Youtube clip, which incidentally is the one that convinced me to try these DVDs in the first place, after the twinnies were riveted, and watched literally a dozen times in a row.



Calmer by the Water is just as excellent, with video of water, water dwelling wildlife, and sail boats. And people? Watching these in the car? Totally makes the fighting, bickering, and tattling stop. Although I have to admit that I've never been brave enough to use the water one while traveling. I have horrible mental images of having to find every single functional toilet along the way. Call me crazy, but.... stranger things have happened.

I would definitely recommend these DVDs to any family, therapist, or teacher for use as a calming method, whether they have sensory kiddos or not.  Much better than any white noise machine ever invented, because  of the amazing videography that accompanies the relaxing sounds of nature. Much better than most nature DVDs out there that have voice overs or classical music. This collection gets it right in all the ways we love here at the Monster House.

Want to know some of the back story to these DVDs? Check this out from the press release of Calmer by Nature 2:

After a period of severe stress in his own life, CEO Barry Wheelock began to film rare moments in nature; wild deer in the forest, birds feeding their young, close encounters with badgers and foxes in the moonlight, or even just wildflowers nodding in the breeze. Not only did Barry find comfort in the British countryside, but it kindled a passion for wildlife that has enabled him to help others suffering from stress, sensory problems and particularly autism spectrum disorders.

"One of the things I wanted to do was to share this with other people. It's a joy to me to know it's helping people," says Barry

And, as if you needed any more incentive to check into Calmer by Nature and Calmer by the Water, here's what professionals have to say about this series of DVDs:

"I highly recommend Calmer by Nature for all ages, whether you're dealing with autism in your family or just want some stress relief," says Debi Taylor, Autism Research Specialist, author and speaker (USA). "We still love the DVD and CD and use it frequently".

"Many people I know have found these DVDs extremely useful as a calming and coping strategy. I have taken these DVDs on some of the talks that I give on autism all over the country" says Steve McGuinness, trustee of the National Autistic Society (UK)

"Calmer by Nature offers a freat therapeutic resource, a tool... to help clients with a range of different presentations - from use as a self soothe strategy, to enabling assessment of children in care, to facilitating reminiscence. Something that can be used in so many different ways, especially when access to the great 'green gym' of the healing outdoors is restricted." says Kath Smith, award winning occupational therapist and Director of MBB Connections (Truro, UK)

Learn more and order DVDs of your own by visiting Calmer by Nature. I promise you will be pleasantly surprised at the effectiveness of nature's soothing attributes. And, because of this, these DVDs have earned the much sought after Monster House rating of 18 thumbs up! That's a lot of thumbs, y'all.  Well done!

**DISCLAIMER** I received a free copy of Calmer by Nature 2 and Calmer by the Water for purposes of this review. The views and opinions in this review are my own, except where notated as quotes by others, and are not compensated. Quotes are property of Calmer by Nature and used here with permission.

 

 

 

Chicken Soup for the Soul for ASD parents! review and #giveaway

We all know, as parents of kids "on the spectrum", the feeling of being alone, not having anyone around us that understands what it's like day to day with these amazing, incredible, wonderful kids of ours. It can be frustrating, exhilarating, exhausting, hilarious, and heartbreaking to parent these unique little people of ours. Most days, I'm convinced that Logan teaches me far more than I have ever taught him.

As Autism and Asperger's diagnosis' increase, and as awareness increases, the number of parents looking for support and understanding increases as well. Chicken Soup for the Soul has come out with a book of 101 stories written by parents of children with Autism and Asperger's, and I was impressed! In keeping with the high standards of other Chicken Soup books, this book will offer comfort and support and understanding apart from support groups online.

Covering such topics as therapies and tips, funny moments, getting the diagnosis, school and camp, family and siblings, hopes, expectations, and leaving the nest, this CSS book will be appropriate for every ASD parent.

Some authors may be familiar, like Big Daddy Stark, Dawn Hentrich , and Leigh Merryday. But regardless of whether I was familiar with the writer or not, each and every story in this book touched me in some way, and left me feeling a little lighter. Advertised as "A portable support group for families with children on the spectrum- with inspirational stories, useful tips, and solid advice from other parents!", this book is right on.

Though I read it from cover to cover, it's formatted in a way that going from story to story in no particular order would be just as satisfying. I have to say... CSS, you get 18 thumbs up! I love this book, and think that every parent should have one, whether they have a child with ASD or not. It's that good.

This quote from co-author Nancy Burrows says it all:

"I remember when my son was first diagnosed. It was like I was staring into the abyss, and I felt this need to turn somewhere for information...

"...I would have loved to have this book to turn to for support, guidance and tips. There's a big difference between Googling 'autism' on the internet and reading 101 stories from parents who have already been there."

And, the great news is, one of my lucky lucky US readers will get to win one of these books of their very own! How completely cool is that?! Enter to win by using the rafflecopter form below. Entries made in blog comments below the post will not be counted. Please read all terms and conditions within the rafflecopter form before entering. Giveaway ends 6/12 at 12am EST.

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Wake Up To Wonder Forge on Easter Sunday!

As you know, I'm posting  non-food Easter basket ideas this week and  next week. So, our non-food Easter basket filler feature (whew! Try saying that five times fast!) today is Wonder Forge! I do so love this company!

Their new Spring games are sure to tickle the fancy of your monsters, just as they did for mine. For all the little monsterlettes out there, Disney Easter Matching Game is a great way to spend some quality time together while playing a game that even a 3 year old can understand. All your favorite Disney characters, decked out in fun Easter outfits, ready to play!

There will be all kinds of silliness as matches are found. If your family is anything like the monster fam, you'll be screaming "DONALD DUCK! WOO HOOOOO!" when a match is successfully made. Okay, if it's Phineas and Ferb or Tinkerbell, you won't shriek Donald Duck, but you know what I mean. And the pride of finding those matches creates the most awesome smiles on little faces! Check out *my* monsterlettes as they found their first matches! Yes, I am painfully aware of the state of nakedness. Sensory issues. What can I say?

Judging from the reaction of my monsters from preschooler to high schooler, I'd have to give this game my Momma smile of approval. It's good, clean fun, with the familiarity of characters that Disney brings to even the youngest of children. This is one game that is an Easter basket must have. Appropriate for players age 3 and up, each game includes 72 picture tiles and one game rules manual. With the low, low MSRP of $7.99, you can't lose! Disney Easter Matching is available now at your favorite Target store. Head on over, people!!

If your monsters are a little older, and want more of a challenge, Nickelodeon's Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles Clash Alley Strategy Board Game might be just what they're looking for! All the cool of a 3D board game, with the added attraction of strategic thinking, cooperation and teamwork, and physical dexterity as the turtles race through a warehouse on important missions like rescuing April, recovering objects, and the most important mission to any ninja turtle.... picking up a pizza!

You'll battle Shredder, mutants, and Kraang, as you make your way through the warehouse and complete your mission. This game is appropriate for players age 6 and up, and comes with 1 game board, 4 movers, 4 mover bases,  4 mission tiles, 12 villain tiles, 3 dice, 13 platforms, 44 action cards, 4 mission cards, and 1 game rules manual. Some assembly is required, but it's worth it! Check out my little ninja turtles!

Reasonably priced at the MSRP of $16.99, it's sure to be a hit with the monsters and your wallet! What could be better? Well... this game is also available at your favorite local Target store, and it won't cause a sugar high, sticky hands or faces, or purple tongues during family pictures. It's Easter basket nirvana for parents! Thank you Wonder Forge! You've done it again, and earned the highest honor the monster house has to offer: 18 thumbs up. Keep up the good work!

Disclaimer: I was provided with free product for purposes of this review. All views and opinions are my own. I was not compensated monetarily for my opinion. Product images property of Wonder Forge and used here with permission. Images of nearly naked monsters and game playing monsters are my own. 

New DVDs from Lionsgate Home Entertainment as Easter Basket Fillers!

With every holiday, we are faced with the dilemma of food allergies and candy. There is very little in the way of candy that Logan can have, so we try to make sure that the candy kept to a minimum, while still allowing the children to have their Christmas stockings, Easter baskets, Halloween buckets, etc.

Just in time for Easter, and much to the delight of the monsters, all new Care Bears and Power Rangers DVDs are now available from Lionsgate Home Entertainment!! This brings back pieces of my childhood, when Care Bears was popular (the first time!), and my teen years, when Power Rangers was a big hit (the first time!). Ok. I'm dating myself, I know.

Get to know the Care Bears again in Care Bears: Totally Sweet Adventures! This all new CGI animated film shows the bears as they go on all new adventures, with new music, a  new look, and a new attitude! Take a trip back to Care-A-Lot and revisit your childhood with your children. This DVD includes 4 new episodes: Emerald Bridge, Jealous Tea, Sad About You, and Lazy Susan. You'll watch Grumpy get unstuck from "Stick-'Til- You're-Stuck sand, see the bears teach a new friend how to find her courage against the sneaky Beastly, and see them bringing sweetness back to Sweet Dreams' Bear's bad dreams. And you'll LOVE the bake off bonanza that happens when Share Bear gets jealous of Grumpy's delicious cookies at her potluck!

This DVD runs 88 minutes, and is available now for the SRP of $14.98. Also available via digital download and Video On Demand beginning March 5, 2013.

If you've got a house full of boys that think the Care Bears are a little too tame, check out the other DVD available on DVD and digital download March 5th from Lionsgate Home Entertainment! Power Rangers: Clash of the Red Rangers - The Movie. 2013 marks 20 years of global success for Power Rangers as the #1 kids' live action series. How cool is that?! This new Power Rangers movie is loaded with high energy entertainment and action packed, as the Samurai Rangers team up with the mysterious RPM Red Ranger to fight off dual threats from Master Zandred's Mooger army and a robotic super villain from the RPM Ranger's dimension.

This feature runs 45 minutes, and is available now for the SRP of $14.98.

So if you're looking for something to fill those Easter baskets that won't cause an allergic reaction, rot teeth, stain the carpet, or cause a sugar high, pick up one or both of these DVDs and watch the eyes of your monsters light up with surprise and delight!

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Bad Teacher

Teachers have a rough job. 30-ish kids in a class, all with different needs, all in different areas of academic success or failure, all with their own little personalities. Parents constantly questioning them. Constant scrutiny from administration, parents, and others. Lesson plans. Making learning fun. Talk talk talking all day long without losing their voices. Meetings, meetings, and more meetings. I couldn't do it. I have the utmost respect for teachers, and am very careful to make sure that every one of my monsters' teachers know that I am there for them any time, any day, for anything they might need. Always. Because that is *my* job when I have monsters in their classes. To be there to help them help my student.

That being said, I have a problem with a teacher. It's a little bit stupid to have a problem with this teacher, because none of my monsters are in her class. Never have been. Definitely never will be. But I have a problem with her just the same.

I have the good fortune to be able to volunteer each morning in our elementary's SpEd room. I love it. I work with several children, and have learned a lot. With that, I also see a lot of the teachers while I am there. As silly as it sounds, I have started to have little lists in my head that go something like this: Oh! Love love LOVE so and so's approach to this! Oh, goodness. I don't think that would be appropriate for my child. Wow, that teacher really knows how to do such and such well.

A couple of weeks ago, after walking my #5 to his classroom and then making my way down the hall to the resource room, I overheard a conversation between a teacher and a couple of students that was so disturbing to me, I don't think I will ever forget it. This teacher had two students out in the hall in front of the closed door to her classroom. The students were upset, one of them crying. The teacher said, "I'm mad at (_insert name here_). Now, tell me who else I'm mad at today." and, those little students proceeded to name names. This is something that has clearly been done before with these students. And I was saddened to know that a teacher would behave in this way toward her class, encouraging one student to throw another under the bus, so to speak. 

And then, a few days ago, another incident. This teacher all but ran down the hallway from another room, back to her classroom, where once again, two (different) distraught students were standing outside her closed classroom door. She sharply asked the children what happened. And before they could answer, she snapped, "You're lying. And let me tell you why." and proceeded to rake them over the coals.

I don't know the whole story with either incident. Frankly, I don't care. She teaches second grade. And this is unacceptable. So what do I do? Do I go to administration and tell them what I witnessed? Do I keep my big mouth shut? Do I notify the district? Do I just let nature take it's course, since I know that the teacher will not be here next year since she is moving away? 

There are times that this teacher is in charge of both second grade classes, during recess, and other activities. And I can tell you that months ago, before she even knew who I was, she pulled me aside on the playground and told me what an instigator my #5 is. That he's always causing problems. She had absolutely no idea that I was his mother. And it bothers me that she would say such things to a complete stranger about a child.

This woman is clearly not a good teacher, not a good example, not a good fit. Indeed, I find her manner to be abrasive and harmful at best. But all my experience with her has been outside her classroom. Is it possible that her behavior is different behind closed doors? To be honest, I shudder to think. The a-word has crossed my mind more than once. No no no... not that a-word, though it is appropriate. The a-word I'm speaking of is abuse. I can't just stand and do nothing, knowing what I know.... but at the same time, what can I do?

That brings to mind a whole other subject. What nightmare-ish things would occur if she has special needs children in her class? Would they be belittled, labeled, and harassed simply because of their differences? The NT children in her class already are belittled, labeled, and harassed. In public. And most likely in class as well. I ache for her class. It could be so much better for them! It could be a great experience to be in second grade! But she clearly won't allow it.

 images via Google images

Back To School

The shootings in Connecticut this weekend have impacted the entire nation, indeed, the entire world. Every parent feels acutely the loss of so many young, innocent lives. I am no different. I have been a bundle of emotion, from overwhelming grief, anger, disgust, disbelief, and back to grief again. Sometimes, all of it, all at once.

But as the news reports continued throughout the weekend, there arose a different issue, one that I never saw coming. And perhaps, I should have. There are rumors which were fueled by news reports that the shooter had mental illness and Asperger's Syndrome. The problem being that, well, the world was ready to accept that Asperger's is a mental illness, a valid reason behind this tragedy of immeasurable proportions, this unspeakable, overwhelming crime against children and teachers. That Asperger's could justifiably explain this kind of violence. This is patently untrue.

Because so many people know little to nothing about autism spectrum disorders, even our school administrators, teachers, and districts, it is vital that we as a special needs community take this opportunity to educate. My friend Jill, over at Yeah. Good Times. has written a beautiful letter to her children's school board, district Superintendant, and school board which eloquently explains the facts about Asperger's and developmental disability, and points out the flaws in the rumors that autism spectrum disorders are mental illness.

Please take the time to visit Jill's site and read her letter. And, if you are inclined to do so, feel free to copy her letter and send it to YOUR school administrators (making sure to insert your own name where hers is! ;) ) with her blessing.

Today is back to school day. Not only for our children, because the weekend is over.. but for the world. The time has come to teach and learn. Who better to teach than those of us that know it so well, who have researched and lived developmental disability right along with our children? Take the opportunity that is handed to us, and help educate those that don't know, but fear it all the same.

My love and prayers to all the families in  Newtown, Connecticut. We will remember your children, whether small or grown. And we will never, ever, ever forget December 14,2012. Ever. May you feel love and support now and always, and come to know peace and healing. Our hearts are with you.

Wonder Forge Game Review

Last month, I was asked if I'd like to review some of the top new games for Holiday 2012 from a company called Wonder Forge. After reading about the company, and learning more about them, I was so impressed, I simply HAD to say yes! I'm always on the hunt for new games for family game night that can be played and enjoyed by the whole family. Let me share a little bit about Wonder Forge with you, right from their website.

Wonder Forge, and their preschool sub brand, I Can Do That! Games, was created in 2007 when a small group of creative types came together to develop extraordinarily fun, original play experiences for kids and families.

 The Wonder Forge takes an innovative approach to licensing, bringing cherished literary classics and award-winning television shows to life in a whole new way, through dynamic and inventive game play. 

 Wonder Forge family games provide brain challenging fun for all, while bridging  generation gaps and building family bonds....

I received a selection of games, ironically enough, on Halloween.  It's ironic because, well, the twinnies dressed up as The Cat in The Hat's Thing 1 and Thing 2 for Halloween, and my little #6 was not in the mood to have turquoise hair until we pulled this out of the box and could show him pictures! Dr. Seuss' Fun Machine App-Play game was an instant hit, and we had to play a quick game of memory with the tiles before preschool.. with turquoise hair.  Though this particular game is an App-Play game, we have enjoyed it both with and without the Daddy's iPad.

The fun from Wonder Forge is not only geared toward boys. Disney Princess addicts, have no fear! Disney Princess Enchanted Cupcake Party and Disney Princess Dazzling Princess are perfect for your own little princess. Racing to crown cupcakes, dressing up, pretend play... it doesn't get much better than this! There's no way to avoid embracing your inner princess while playing these darling Disney Princess games.

Who Shook Hook is my personal favorite. I realize that I'm oozing praise from my pores at this point, but I have to share this. While this may not have been the intention of Wonder Forge, my little guys have been using Who Shook Hook as part of their fine motor practice, and loving every minute of it. Logan's hands shake when doing any type of fine motor skill, so having a game like this has really helped to make his practice a fun time rather than one of drudgery. Way to go, Wonder Forge! Very cool. Very.

Jake and the Neverland Pirates Neverland Challenge game was another instantaneous hit at the monster house, bringing out each monster's inner pirate with sword action, a cannon ball, treasure, and lots of giggling and silliness while trying to keep balance and crab walk. This is our favorite game for right before bed time to get all the wiggles out. Even the teenage monsters like to get in on the action. But shhhhh! That's supposed to be a secret! *wink wink, nudge nudge* It gets better! This game has been nominated for the Toy of the Year (TOTY) award by the Toy Industry Association (TIA). This is so completely fabulous, I'm providing a clickable link HERE, because Wonder Forge would love your support. Please vote for them by checking the box right at the top for Disney Jake and the Neverland Pirates, then scrolling down and clicking submit.

Whether it's family game night, entertaining a sick child, having a play date, or just spending some quality time together, Wonder Forge has definitely figured out how to make games that will surprise and delight. We may not be Siskel and Ebert here at the monster house, but we DO know games and family time, so we have 18 thumbs up (7 monsters, 2 parents... 18 thumbs up. Do the math, people! ) for the good people of Wonder Forge. Keep up the good work, and best of luck for TOTY!

Official game images property of Wonder Forge, and used with permission

Images of children and children playing games are mine

Very special thanks to G. and S. Bosshardt for contributing to this post

No Talking Allowed!

One of the first things we learn as children in school is that there are rules. Rules, that presumably will keep us safe, encourage us to be kind to our friends, to share, to show respect by being quiet while others are speaking. These are all good and necessary things for a child to learn.

On Friday, I was making the rounds to three different teachers at our elementary school for various reasons - not the least of which being my monsters- and I stopped in to the Pre-K classroom on my way out, hoping to be able to speak with that teacher as well. Fridays are no school days for preschool. I was happy to find the teacher there, working on the next week's lessons, and able to talk with me for a few minutes.

During the course of our impromptu meeting about my little Logan monster, who has suddenly begun hating school to the point of begging to stay home, tears and sobbing, and screaming meltdowns every. single. day., she asked if I knew that I wasn't supposed to be talking to our para. Apparently, the para showed our beloved Miss P some paperwork she received during her training that  states parents are only to talk to the teacher, never the para. The teacher will then let the para know of any changes in meds, routine, therapies, or strategies. I was floored. Absolutely stunned. Flummoxed, even. (Flummox: transitive verb, meaning confused, according to Merriam-Webster.) And I wasn't the only one. Miss P was just as confused by it all as I was, and still am.

Here's the deal. Miss P teaches three pre-k classes Monday through Thursday, back to back. Literally. They are scheduled so close together, that one class is leaving through the back door while the next class is coming in. There is so much going on during drop-off (and the previous class leaving at the same time), that I never, and I do mean never, ever get the chance to speak to her. I have to talk to the para, or there would be no updating possible. And yet, according to the training our para received, that's a BIG no-no.

What. The. $%&* ?!?!?! So, basically, last week when I told the para about Logan's new seizure status, that was a no-no. When I told her that I was watching a welt on his face because I wasn't sure it was an allergic reaction, or that yes, he has had meds today, that was a no-no. When I brought my twinnies in late last Thursday because Logan was having a meltdown when school started, I wasn't supposed to tell her that, either. When he came to school with a black eye because he ran into #2's elbow, and I told her about it, WRONG thing to do. Ditto any talk of lack of the twinnies' sleep, pottying issues, or emotional distress. Don't ask how she's doing, don't say you like her hair, earrings, or shoes. And for the love of little green apples, do NOT approach her to tell her thank you for the great job she is doing.

In this case, it isn't the children that should be seen and not heard, it's the parents. Someone explain this to me, please. I have never, ever, EVER been told this before. Not last year while working with our previous para, not this year while the para was being trained, not during any of the many meetings we had with the school district, title 1, the district nurse, and the principal between this year and last year. Not  by any other special needs parent I have ever spoken to. So. How did this come to be? How does this even make sense? And why was I just told about it? Well... I can answer that last one.  We were talking about Logan, and the teacher explained that the para may appear to be stand-offish from now on, and this is why.

NOT OKAY, people with power! NOT OKAY! Think about it. How much will be forgotten before it is passed on to a para? How much will be lost in translation? How many kids who have severe needs will wind up having avoidable incidents, because the parent isn't allowed to speak to the para directly? I am ranting, yes. This is stupid, stupid, STUPID.

So really.. someone explain it to me. I need to know why this is even an issue. I need to know why I now I have to call yet another meeting to raise yet another nine kinds of hell this year so that our team is all on the same page and actually acting like.... a team. This is getting tiresome. I just want to be able to communicate with the para that works directly with my special needs children, rather than expecting an already harried teacher to remember everything I tell her, and/or pass notes to someone who is standing right there but "not allowed" to speak to me. Is that so FREAKING much to ask?

Rules image via the Google by  North Forest Independent School District

No talking sign via the Google by Ninja Novelty Signs
Parents seen and not heard via the Google by Flickr

Welcome, Fall!

One of the best things I have ever done without realizing that what a good thing it was going to turn out to be, is to sign up for Education.com 's weekly newsletter by email. Y'all may know that I just love love LOVE to spend time and do things with my monsters, such as simple crafts (because, darn it, I am not a crafter at heart), baking, and simple science experiments (because, darn it, I am also not a scientist at heart. But I really get into Mythbusters, every episode of Magic School Bus ever made, and How It's Made. Does that count?).

When I opened this week's newsletter, I was thrilled with all the fun Autumn projects listed there and had to sing praises. From making leaf pattern prints for Pre-k aged monsters, to making pumpkin pasta (yummmm!!) for high school aged monsters, and more crafts and experiments for every age in between, this site has got it going on! This takes all the headache out of figuring out what fun things I can do with the monsters each weekend. And I'm all for less headache!

Exploring all the changes in nature as the weather turns is one of my favorite things to do with the monsters, no matter what the season. The air feels almost electric with change and anticipation of things to come. A day spent making cookies, jumping into leaf piles, visiting a pumpkin patch to choose the perfect one for a jack o'lantern, or playing with gingerbread scented homemade playdough is heaven this time of year. Reading books while snuggled up together in a quilt, or watching "It's The Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown!" makes me smile.

Grab the chance to make memories with your monsters, and have a lot of fun doing it! Happy Saturday, y'all!

Image of tree and leaves by firehow.com. It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown! clip via youtube.com

This post was unsolicited, and uncompensated, and is purely my own view and opinion. Views and opinions of others may differ.

Paper Jackson

Jackson has been home from the hospital since July 10! This is so phenomenal, and so fast, it still boggles the minds of those of us following his story. His recovery and recuperation time has been nothing short of miraculous, and warms the hearts of everyone working with their family. There are still some things Jackson is not able to do while he further recovers, such as not being able to swim for two weeks, and not being able to jump on the trampoline (one of his favorite things!!) until his follow up appointment with his neurologist at the end of August.

So, knowing that he is restricted, we (the online community helping the St. Aubin family) all got together and figured out something EVERYONE could do, no matter where in the world you live! It's my great pleasure to introduce to you... Paper Jackson!

How this works is: visit the Paper Jackson page by clicking >>HERE<<. Choose which Paper Jackson you'd like... either the full color image like you see here on my post, or the outline image that is perfect for kids to color however they like! Then, download it, and print it out. Color it, cut it out and you're ready to go! Take Paper Jackson with you on all your adventures this summer and take digital pictures of him with you! Then, upload the pictures of you and Paper Jackson on the Paper Jackson page you got the image from! There are already a few pictures up there, so you can see where he's been, and add your adventures to the gallery!

The goal is to see how many places around the world Paper Jackson will "travel". My #4 actually took Paper Jackson to Girls' Camp with her last week, and took pictures of Paper Jackson with the girls. He went with us to see the aerial fireworks display on the fourth of July, and will be attending the 24th of July parade here as well! He has been busy in other places as well; gardening, going to visit Plymouth Rock, and even visited the University of Wisconsin La Crosse!

Here are a few helpful hints that we have figured out through trial and error:

• If you are going to color Paper Jackson, use markers. Crayons and colored pencils are not vibrant enough to show up in some pictures. It will just look like a white paper doll cutout.
• If you plan to take him on more than a day trip, consider gluing Paper Jackson to cardboard so he will survive the trip
• If you adventure includes water, laminate Paper Jackson, or stick him in a ziplock bag for picture taking.

Can't wait to see all the places Paper Jackson visits! On your mark... get set.... GO!

The Morning After

Good morning, my lovelies! I have NEWS. I have GREAT news.  I have the BEST news ever! After being up with one monster or another all night last night, and finally getting to sleep at 5am, I woke up at 930 to find this text from Jackson's mother waiting for me:

"We Didn't sleep last night. He can't even take a sip of water without dry heaving. Problem (besides that) is that when he sits up the pressure in his brain changes and and the drainage of the spinal fluid changes and puts pressure on his brain. Poor kid! He hasn't needed Dilantin yet but using regular pain meds. Dilantin could make him nauseated so we're hoping to not have to do it. He has zofran and Benadryl on board for nausea. He has moved both legs and hands / arms, and has spoken so we think everything migrated to the right hemisphere which is all we could have hoped for!!!! He's asked for presents. Asked of he did a good job. Asked to watch toy story... His face is swollen, head swollen, and he's sleepy So, generally good."

Now remember, he's only 12 hours post op at the time of this text. And people?  HAPPY DANCE!!!!!!

It would appear we have been given our marching orders, straight from Jackson himself.  The boy wants presents! I have to admit that I had a little giggle fit with that part.

Keep those drawings, cards, letters, care packages, and pictures coming! Our guy is kicking butt and taking names!

If you need the address for sending something to Jackson or the family, or for other ways to help while Jackson is in the hospital for the next 4-6 weeks, please click HERE

And, as I write, I just got a pic message from Jackson's Momma. He's....sleeping! For the first time in four days. *MORE Happy Dance* and, just like that, my heart melts.

Have a good day, everyone. I'm going to go and snuggle some monsters, and color with them.

Lovable Labels Review and Give Away!

Summer is coming, and with it comes all the activities for kids and families: sports, camps, vacations, sleepovers, play dates, birthday parties, neighborhood BBQs, swimming parties, daycare.. and on and on and on. As fun as all this is, with it comes camping supplies, sports gear, gym bags, extra shoes and clothing, water bottles, hats, towels, sunscreen, medications, lunch bags, snack boxes. It's no wonder that half the summer taken up by thinking, "Did I forget anything?"

Lovable Labels is here to help!  Lovable Labels was started by a mom that had a problem when she took her son to daycare and was asked to label all of his belongings - from clothes and backpack, to lunches and sippy cups. It was during this process that she recognized the need for personalized labels that were tough, durable, and could withstand the test of time and rough everyday use that comes with being  a kid.

Lovable Labels launched in 2003, with personalized durable labels and tags being their specialty. Their labels are waterproof, dishwasher and microwave safe, washer and dryer safe, and sun, bleach, sunscreen, and temperature safe to boot! Since their launch, Lovable Labels has continued to develop innovative and useful products, and many of them came about through customer suggestions and feedback!

We all know that our kids lose stuff. They forget where their lunch bag landed, or one shoe will mysteriously disappear. The weather will warm during the day, and the jacket gets tossed to the side. It's inevitable that they will return home missing one thing or another. BUT, with Lovable Labels, your child's belongings will come back home, because there will be no question who the items belong to.

The Monster House was thrilled to review a Split Pack of Lovable Labels. This is a large value pack of labels, with one design and two names. Each name packet includes:

15 Sticker labels
40 Slimline labels
12 shoes labels
24 Press n' Stick Clothing DOTS™

This was perfect for our twinnies, who both started preschool this year. And, you guessed it. We had to label shoes, back packs, coats, benadryl, epipen, and even treats to be kept in the classroom cupboard for Logan, because he is so deathly allergic to most sweets.

But the need for labeling didn't stop there! Both of my monsterlettes have sensory issues, so the labeling went on to include therapy balls, giant bottles of bubbles, and other items. I cannot tell you how many times I have been thankful for these labels. And they last! Unlike other labels I've used, these have never fallen off toys,clothes, cups,etc.

But, let's talk about other good uses for the split pack that we discovered. Both twins were sick at the same time. Not wanting to pass along germs and illness into infinity, I gave them each their own bottle of sports drink. But, they both wanted the same flavor. Oh, yes we did! We labeled it, and the twinnies thought that was the coolest thing ever!

My favorite thing about Lovable Labels is the variety. Shoe labels, slimline, Clothing DOTS™,  camp packs and medical/allergy warnings are just a few of the choices Lovable Labels offers. They are located online, which makes ordering easy for anyone, anywhere in the world! Lovable Labels is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week via their website, or by calling 1.866.327.LOVE (5683)

I'm so excited to announce that Lovable Labels is offering a Split Pack to one lucky Living with Logan reader in the US or Canada! Entering is easy, by using the rafflecopter form below.  Entrants must be 18 or older to be eligible for this giveaway.

**DISCLOSURE** The product in this review was provided to me free of charge for the purpose of conducting this review. All opinions in this review are my own, and are not influenced by monetary compensation.** a Rafflecopter giveaway

Open Call For Guest Posting

Because of the diversity of the Special Needs community, I'm announcing an open call for guest writers for my blog. This open call is for everyone within our community, whether you have a blog or not, whether you are a professional writer, or have never written a piece before. If you are a parent, teacher, therapist, sibling, or friend of a child with special needs, or if you have special needs yourself, you qualify!

I am not giving out topics, except to say that I would like to stay away from topics which cause heated debate,such as vaccines vs. genetics as a cause of autism. All special needs topics are otherwise acceptable, from autism to epilepsy to cerebral palsy to Down's Syndrome to SPD.. it truly is an endless list of possibilities. You could talk about schools, specialists, therapy, medications, communication or the lack thereof, lack of sleep, picky eaters... you see how this could go on and on.

If you are interested, and have a topic in mind, please email me at: frazzledmomma@livingwithlogan.com 

Don't be afraid to try, don't be afraid to let your voice be heard. Take advantage of the opportunity, and embrace the possibility that there might be someone else out there just like you, just waiting for the chance to read what you have to say. And I would be honored to assist in that.

image in this post from the Google

Adult Essentials Gummies: A Review and #G!veaway!

It's hard to believe that I could love Life Science Nutritionals more than I already did, after meeting with Deb and working with her to present the Iron Kids Gummies review and giveaway we did a while back. But guess what! I do indeed love Life Science Nutritionals more now, because they have a whole line of ADULT gummy vitamins and supplements, too! I am no longer jealous of my little monsters, as they chomp and chew on their fun gummies, and fight to see who gets to choose their vitamins first, while I  choke down "horse pills". I'm a big kid now! Yippee!

We were sent a bottle each of Adult Essentials Enhanced Multivitamin with Omega-3, DHA and RHA, Smart Omega-3, Adult Strength Vitamin D, and Metabolic Vitamin B12 to try. They. Are. Awesome! Truly, I was so impressed. No weird metallic/chalky/vitamin-y taste at all. It's seriously just like eating gummy fruits candies. The only supplement I had any issue with is the Omega-3, because it's shaped like a fish and has a very mild fishy after taste.  My imagination is overactive and my taste buds are happy to contribute to the delusion. However, my mother and the Daddy tried them and said they didn't get even the hint of fishy flavor. Because the multi has Omega-3 as well, I didn't feel bad about not taking an additional Omega-3 supplement.

Here's the very best part: just like Iron Kids, the Adult Essentials line is gluten, nut, and dairy free. And as you know, the Monster House loves finding stuff like that! Check out the guarantee from the Adult Essentials website:

Our Guarantee 

Life Science Nutritionals specializes in Gummy Vitamins and only manufactures gummy vitamins.

As North America's only government audited and licensed gummy vitamin manufacturing facility, we are mandated to maintain the highest quality standards. These standards are maintained all the way through our supply chain and our manufacturing processes. By controlling our manufacturing we can guarantee that our products are dairy, nut and gluten free.  With Health Canada's stamp of approval you can be assured that our products deliver nutrition you can trust!!

Stuart Lowther 
Founder/CEO/President
Life Science Nutritionals Inc

How cool is that?! Want to know more about the people behind Life Science Nutritionals, and why it was created in the first place? Click on over, and read all about it! You can connect with Adult Essentials on facebook, twitter, linkedin, and youtube, too!

Buy It!

In Canada, Adult Essentials can be found at a variety of retailers, listed here . For US customers, log on to well.ca  to place your order today! You'll love them!

Win It!

One lucky Living with Logan reader in the US or Canada will win an Adult Essentials prize pack including:

• Adult Essentials Enhanced Multivitamin with Omega-3, DHA, and RHA
• Smart Omega-3
• Adult Strength Vitamin D
• Metabolic B12

Please note: if you have won an Iron Kids or Adult Essentials prize pack from Life Science Nutritionals within the last 6 months, you will not be eligible to win this giveaway. Entries will be verified prior to releasing the name of the winner.


To enter, simply fill out the rafflecopter form below. Be aware that it may take a couple of minutes to load. If you have trouble viewing the form, try reloading the page.

Dearly Beloved, We Are Gathered Here Today...

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today, three bloggers together, to address a serious issue that has become so commonplace throughout social media for special needs parents and the special needs community as a whole, we aren't shocked when it happens anymore. Please welcome Jill from Yeah. Good Times., Lisa, the Yuckmouth Mommy from 7 Yuckmouths and Autism, and Caryn, from Living with Logan. This post will go live simultaneously on all three sites today, because we are united in our desire to get the word out. Please help us in this effort, and pass it along.

The issue, as you may have guessed, is the frequency with which the special needs community is getting scammed through false organizations and individuals, who prey on our desire to help our children. We've put together a little dialogue that we hope will be helpful in learning to protect ourselves as thoroughly as we protect our children. The truth of the matter is this: if we don't protect ourselves, no one else will. Each comment will be followed by the initials of the author, and we welcome comments and questions from all. Please be respectful in your comments, or they will be deleted. There is enough drama and cat fighting. We don't need more.

And now, welcome to our conversation!

• Do you think the Special Needs Parenting Community as a whole is vulnerable to cyber scammers?

Yes, I do. I think we are easily targeted for a number of reasons. We are fighters. We are strong. We have to be so, to advocate for our children. People desiring to scam us love this attribute, because they don’t have to teach us to work toward the goal. We are focused, as every parent is, in getting whatever our child/children needs. We hit so many dead ends, we are told “No” so many times in so many different ways that we love it when someone says yes. There is a veritable target on our backs. I don’t mean that we are stupid. Certainly we are not. We are intelligent, we work hard, and we fight for what we believe in. And, let’s face it, people. We like to talk. If we find something we think is awesome for our kids, it’s all over the twitter and the facebook the very same day. What scammer wouldn’t love any of that?! Not only that, those of us that blog are only too happy to blog about our good fortune, because we want others to benefit as well. This is a win/win for a scammer.  People who will promote online, at their own expense of time and effort, with no cost to the scammer but one or two iPads or a couple of apps, and then they never have to make good again. They already have all the good exposure they need.  It’s scary how easy we have made it for the slime balls of the internet. CH

• What are some “red flags” that somebody might be scamming you. Jill

Generally, I follow the “if it sounds too good to be true, it usually is” rule. Someone asking you for money when offering a “free” product or service such as purchasing a raffle ticket or forking over a nominal fee to “keep your reservation valid” is a sign of a scam. Likewise, someone asking you to write a blog post, collect donations, or generate votes to qualify your child for a free service dog, for instance, is a sign of a scam.  CH

Trust your instincts. If it doesn’t feel right to you, it’s likely that it isn’t, so ask questions. Who are these people? Where are they located? Do they have any other sources of funding? Do they have (valid) testimonials and references? A huge red flag is if you ask direct questions and consistently do not get direct answers. If they can’t provide you with valid financial information, or they refuse to provide any personally identifiable information about themselves: be careful. Scammers are like politicians; they will talk around the issue, touching on their key “talking points,” but they will rarely ever actually answer your question directly. A reputable organization will be easily able to provide you with whatever you need to know to prove their validity. Jill

Also, anybody who requires any money from you, in any form (i.e. directly from you, solicited by you, etc.) before you can proceed with an application process is definitely scamming you. Trustworthy organizations will not require that you pay to complete an application process. Jill

• How can you protect yourself?

I’m sorry, but someone offering a “free” iPad or service dog or therapy or miracle “cure” for autism just doesn’t ring like the real deal to me.  I’m a BIG believer in doing my homework. Read the fine print. What strings are attached? What commitments are they asking from you? Are they registered as a 501 3(c)? If so, have they been reported at any time in any way? Are they registered with the BBB? Is it a company, foundation, or individual? Are they based in your country or somewhere you’ve never heard of in Bangladesh? Do they offer transparency if they are a donation based company? Will they provide statements to anyone who asks? Are the founders or other officials easily accessible to their followers by chat, message board, email, facebook, twitter, or corporate phone number? Is there a message board/review panel of any kind for feedback from people who have worked with this person or company in the past? Does the person or company bash other similar entities regularly? These are questions you should ask yourself before becoming involved with ANY internet based company or foundation. CH

• What to do when you have already been scammed, or private info has been published on social networking sites. LG

There are many ways to protect yourself on facebook and twitter. Both sites have very firm TOS (Terms Of Service) in place to protect their users, its just a matter of finding where to do all of this. LG

First you can report any and all comments you feel are attacking you in any way. You need to make sure that you first screen shot for proof later because once a comment or post is reported it is removed.   I find it much easier to watch a video of what I should be doing and this google search has all the info for how to screen shot on various devices. LG

On twitter there is a way to report people twitter has a really handy page that is clear as how to report a number of violations of their TOS. In addition you have to give them the url to the post so make sure you click on details in the tweet, that will open to a new page and give you the url to give to twitter. LG

On Facebook you can find out lots about your account in your general account setting tab. From there click on security settings. On that page is a wealth of info in regards to what, when and who has had access to your account that you may not have known about. LG

From that page it is easy to click on the help button towards the bottom of the page, there you can report violations from harassment,  to copyright infringement, and intellectual property infringement. Because even as a fan page you have rights on facebook just like everyone else. LG

For more information on cyber crimes, how to report them, and definitions of cyber crimes, please visit the following websites:

Cyberstalking: What it is and what you can do as a victim

Computer Crime and Intellectual Property Section of the United States Department of Justice

What Are Your Legal Rights?

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I Am A Closet Foodie

I have a confession to make. I am a closet foodie. I love to cook. I love to bake. I live to create new and wonderful things. However, this gets a little difficult when I'm supposed to be adhering to a very strict GFCFSFCF diet. It's not fun! It is not pleasant! It's not even remotely triggering my creative genius in the kitchen. I have tried. Really I have. But it's just not working for me.

So, I'm the one on the couch in the middle of the night, secretly watching Cupcake Wars, Chopped, The Next Great Baker, Cake Boss, Paula Deen.. the list goes on. And on. And on....while I hope that Logan never sees some of the amazingness that is the cooking channel and Food Network.

I love it all. I love watching everything happen. From purchase to food prep to plate to first bite. I have have SUCH GUILT!! I don't get out much, people. I watch all the deliciousness happen, and occasionally you'll find me in the kitchen late at night whipping up something phenomenal. The latest experiment was bread pudding made from gingerbread and egg nog. The flavor was amazing. The consistency needs a little tweaking.

Am I the only one? I can't take it anymore! As able as I am in the kitchen, I have yet to successfully create a gluten/corn/egg free cupcake that tastes and bakes up anything remotely like the real thing. It's intimidating! It's depressing! It's... NOT FAIR!! Where are all the foodie shows without gluten, dairy, corn, soy, or eggs?  Sometimes, I feel they ignore the fact that there are people with different nutritional needs out here in TV land. Wanna know why? It's impossible to have a showdown with restrictions like that.

That's it. I have made an executive decision. There needs to be a show for restricted foodies like us.  Get on it, Food Network! I have faith in you. Scour the country. Heck, scour the world! Find me a molten chocolate cake, or a pasta dish, or bread, or pie, or pan seared something or other, or sour cream bechamel (wait, that's totally against GFCFSFCF. Forget the bechamel) that could go up against The Next Iron Chef or Chopped All Stars, but adhers to the guidelines we have. Give us inspiration! Give us hope! Give us something to get excited about, as we go on our weekly shopping trip and spend the equivalent of a mortgage payment on groceries our child can eat. Oh! OOOOH! Give me a sopapilla that tastes like the real thing, puffs like the real thing, but isn't the real thing!

Okay. I'm taking a breath. I'm relaxing. But REALLY, y'all! It was Christmas, and Logan couldn't have treats unless he was doped up on Pedia Care Allergy. That's no way to have to treat a three year old so he can eat a tiny chocolate Santa Claus on Christmas morning. It's just sad. So. Who do I need to whine to at Food Network? I have all kinds of brilliant ideas.  ;)

Logos in this post from the Google via Wikipedia. 

First/Then

Since the monsterlettes started preschool, they've been obsessed with numbers. They're amazingly good at this. I have to brag a LITTLE... partially because I'm a proud Momma and partially because I am often surprised at the amount of knowledge they both have for numbers. For three year olds, they're doing well!

I've been researching for a while now, trying to find the best way to explain sequence of events to them in regard to things we do throughout the day. Social stories with pictures didn't really seem appropriate, since we don't really have any kind of set schedule or activity except on school days twice a week. Also, I'm lazy and I didn't want to have to make sure we had  social story books with us at all times. I am the queen of lost items. And then I read about first/then. I love this! Here's how it works: the Daddy, the older monsters, or I will sit down with the twinnies, hold up a finger and say, "First, change bum." Then two fingers "Then, get dressed and brush hair." Holding up three fingers, we finish off , "Then, play outside!"

This has worked so well for such a variety of things. And #6 has added his own, holding up four chubby little fingers "THEN go a store!" and he adds it at the end of each and every first/then we do! What can I say? The boy loves the grocery store. They have potato logs there in the deli, and Momma is a pushover.

This little activity was easy to adopt, is easy to maintain, and can be done anywhere. We do a lot..a LOT... of reminding when we're using a first/then, and we have a little happy dance each time we complete one of the sequence. It has drastically cut down the amount of frustration, when they are anxious to go outside and play, for instance, and we haven't even gotten dressed yet. The twinnies know at the beginning what we will need to do before we can play, and I never use more than three tasks for first/then.

Surprisingly, it even worked on Christmas Eve. "First, take a nap. Then, Santa Claus comes! THEN, wake up and open presents!" I kid you not, those boys ran to bed and stayed there. Okay, they sleep with the Daddy and they were tired, but when they woke up, I repeated that particular first/then. And they knew exactly what was going on.

We use this for everything. Here are a few we use, a lot!

First, pick up toys. Then eat toast. Then watch Olivia! (and the cute #6 "THEN go a store!" what can I say? The kid never loses hope! )

First, eat dinner. Then bath and jammas. Then go to bed (THEN, go a store!)

And, just this second:

First, diaper. Then, get dressed. THEN play with trucks! (THEN go a store at grama's!)

I have learned that three tasks is the perfect number for us. The monsterlettes can remember them easily, and so can the Momma! I have noticed in the last couple of days that there have been fewer meltdowns. However, I am hesitant to say anything about that because I don't know if it's a result of first/then, extreme sugar consumption, or the new fun stuff to play with. Also, I don't want to jinx anything.

If any of you have had experience using first/then, I'd love to see your comments about this! Seriously, people. I'm starting to use this on the teenagers and it WORKS! Who knew???

images in this post by the Google images. I so totally love that place.